well I think sort of as women as we move through different stages of our life like there are different trans Transformations and manifestations that can be Curiosities I’ll put it that way that we have to sort of learn to accept and and sort of move forward with gracefully and I I think that the manifestation of like being pregnant giving birth raising a child it changes us so cellularly um no matter how that happens for us um that I think it’s it’s really appropo cuz the the process of Parenthood no matter how you come to it is such a surreal experience yeah