we have that in common we we’re our toughest critics and and you we pushed each other a lot I think because we we care so much yeah but that would happen a lot of times on the set like because one thing is you have your inner voice thinking okay this maybe sh I have to try harder but then when I think it’s but maybe it’s just in her voice and she comes to me was like no is and same the way like she I think I’m being in this shot and she was like maybe it’s my inner voice I was like I think you’re being sh but then we get there get real