I mean for a father I mean it means everything I mean for someone who didn’t have that you know growing up uh to be able to be able to have that influence on your kids and have influence on your son be able to have moments with your son um and then ultimately you know to be able to work with your son I think that’s one of the greatest things that a father could ever hope for or wish for so you know when we came out of the timeout and uh he was picking up full court and I went up and my guy was taking the ball out we still kind of stood next to each other I kind of looked at him and was just like a matrix or something it just didn’t feel real so