whatever you do a you have to enjoy it and I think it’s about being Allin I think it’s go big or go home it’s like an Allin mentality where you know like I said you know you’re only on Earth for a little bit so you know throw it on I I tell my kids that um you know unfortunately ages 16 to 30 right those are your fun you know I look back on those and even though I mean obviously I’m very blessed and I’m very grateful for my life um you know the maximum fun you have is in those years that those are really fun times but on the other hand you know you’re building your own narrative You’re Building you know your story right and so you got to bring it it’s got to be work hard and play hard and so yeah there’ll be times where you have to stay up and you can’t go out with your friends and you’ve got to like get the A’s and so I think it’s about Excellence it’s about doing things you like and then I think it’s about making smart decisions