what is it that has changed in the way that you select roles and where you want to put your energy um well I think I’m just more careful because I’m I’ve been home a lot more uh this last decade but um so I I don’t know I suppose I mean I’ve always tried to be careful about what I choose but I think more so and and something that I feel I’ll learn a lot from and something that I feel really passionate about so and the kids factor into that of course yeah I mean the different reasons kids can factor into not picking a role that doesn’t take you away from home too long or or something like Outsiders that I shared with viven and my boys worked on Maria um so sure yeah you know