[Applause] oh my goodness during a normal wedding there is a garter toss why don’t we just instead of doing a gter toss replace it with sonogram photos inside of the Garter funny enough is I didn’t even want a garter toss us doing it you know using the sonogram image I feel like it it made it more like palatable for me to do something like that in front of like my family because I just feel like that’s a very intimate moment I feel like it it took that connotation away from it and made it more of like wow like this is just a beautiful surprise we knew we wanted a a really engaging reveal that would you know allow you know our wedding guests to really feel like you know it’s it it was worth coming out to California cuz we’re from Maryland originally our parents they knew and then my bridesmaids and his groomsmen they knew so those were all the people that knew really authentic reactions to the reveal it was a game time decision on how we came about the method of how we decided to reveal it was more so like the week of the week of this is what we’re going to do we’ve been planning our wedding since the prior year like September so basically it was like a whole year until the wedding but we ended up finding out this year may that I was pregnant so things had to changed my dress had to change it was going to be more of a form fitted outfit but understanding that I’m going to have like a baby bump I had to Pivot with that it’s like okay they’re going to know once I change into like the reception dress because that’s also going to be like a more form fitting dress so I was like we might as well make it a priz before I change into that second outfit I was 6 and 1/2 months everyone was like I didn’t even know that you were pregnant like you didn’t look like it but it’s definitely a beautiful experience and I’m glad that God appointed me to to carry this baby boy and I’m able to carry it alongside my husband he’s been a great support but it’s mainly Blissful because of like the partner that I have been unplaced with and I think we have a pretty good tribe behind us through this process so that’s what also brings comfort knowing that we’re not alone the timing of everything is perfect it’s like it’s definitely Divine timing God’s timing and we’re just blessed to to be in this position to say that we we are expecting you know a young one on the way