I great we had a very sensitive person who was um who who who was there to keep an honors but you know the two of us were grown-ups it’s like you know we we didn’t we know what we we knew we knew what we wanted to try and Achieve we had Luca keeping guide guiding us and we laughed a lot and that’s the way you deal with it you know you kind of like keep it as light as possible and and and and then try and make it as real as possible