I think that they are absolutely uh entitled to that opinion and it makes perfect sense as to why they would feel that way I mean look we live in a culture where uh unfortunately too many things are glorified and you know we are fighting for attention we’re in an attention economy and we’re in a clickbait world and everybody is trying to you know figure out how to how to gather attention look at the news cycle it’s everywhere around us um and so it makes perfect sense that people would feel that way um also if anybody has had that real life experience um I can imagine how hard it would be to imagine their experience being in a romance novel to them I would just offer that um that we were very intentional in the making of this movie