you know I think it’s actually such a good idea that you decided to do a destination wedding on an island I think after your wedding Marissa and I were going to stay a little bit and take a mini vacation what yeah I mean might as well take advantage that we already bought the plane ticket to go to your wedding and stay a little longer since we already have time off I mean I think it’s a pretty good idea some other people from the wedding are going to do it too this isn’t a vacation this is my we