she said that she didn’t know that a reality show was coming or that you were doing one so is there a reason why you didn’t tell that’s that’s normal I mean there there do you tell your your brother and your sister everything well I do tell them anytime I get a new job or something of significance you know it’s it’s it’s something that just happens I mean I found out something about my brother the other day and he didn’t tell me it’s just I feel like you know like I said it we have this is significant yeah but like I said I think it’s it’s normal you know for you not to tell everyone everything it doesn’t mean anything you know there’s nothing there’s nothing loaded you know with that I guess um you know it is she’s living her life I’m living my life you know we don’t have to tell each other everything and that’s very normal