if you’ve never experienced the hell that is infertility I guarantee you you know somebody who has and I can remember praying each night for a phone call The Pit in your stomach when the phone had rang and the absolute agony when we heard the treatments hadn’t worked it took Gwen and I years but we had access to fertility treatments and when our daughter was born we named her hope hope Gus and Gwen you are my entire world and I love you [Applause]